Why Can’t I Forgive My Mother? Understanding Mother-Son Enmeshment

This is the second article in the Mentoring Through the Maze® series on forgiveness. The first article, [Why Forgiveness Is So Hard for Men], explores why anger, dignity, unresolved harm and self-protection can make forgiveness difficult long after an event has ended. This article examines how those barriers operate within mother-son enmeshment. Mother-Son Enmeshment: Why […]
Why Forgiveness Is So Hard for Men: Anger, Resentment and Self-Forgiveness

Why Forgiveness Is So Hard for Men: Key Takeaways Forgiveness is hard for a man when anger is the way he holds on to the fact that he was hurt. If he feels betrayed, the anger may protect his sense that what happened to him was wrong and that his dignity still deserves protection. When […]