Emotional Honesty for Men After Grief and Loss: A Practical Skill for Better Decisions

What grief, loss, and significant change ask of every man Grief, loss, and major change are brutal — and they do one thing no other experience in life does: they make the old strategies we used to manage life ineffective. In that gap sits an opportunity most men miss. That opportunity is emotional honesty — […]
Rebuilding Dignity After Loss: Grief and Shame in Men – The Lesson of Philoctetes

In Philoctetes, shame tries to turn a visible wound into a verdict about the man. After grief or loss—death, divorce, redundancy, illness—shame does the same for many men. It tried to turn what we have been going through into a verdict about who we “are” now. The lesson we learn from grief is the power […]