Shame After Loss: The Silent Deal Men Make to Avoid Owing Anyone
Main Points Shame after loss in men results in many withdrawing from connections and relationships as they manage the impact of the change they are going through. Accepting help can feel like a debt, a form of leverage, or humiliation, even when that is not the intention. A simple check-in text can feel like the […]
Continuing Bonds for Fathers After a Child Dies: The Osiris and Horus Myth and How Fatherhood Continues
This article is about continuing bonds for fathers after a child dies and how the Osiris and Horus myth gives language for how fatherhood continues. An ancient myth of rupture and legitimacy — read as a structure for living after the world has split into before and after. Continuing bonds for fathers after a child […]