The Competence Tax in Men: The Hidden Cost of Being the Strong One
How High-Performing Men Lose Themselves in Strength, Silence, and Survival “The strongest people are not those who show strength in front of us, but those who win battles we know nothing about.” Main Points The competence tax in men is the emotional, psychological, and relational price men pay for always being capable. It’s not burnout—it’s […]
Why Men Need Soul Mentoring—Not Just Success Coaching
This article explores the urgent need for soul mentoring for men today—an emotionally grounded, reflective alternative to conventional success-focused coaching. Drawing from the works of Thomas Moore, Carl Jung, and James Hillman, it guides men through grief, role fatigue, and spiritual disconnection, inviting them to rediscover meaning, emotional clarity, and soul presence.
Beyond Words: Men’s Untraditional Paths to Wholeness
“The body remembers what the mind forgets.” — Bessel van der Kolk. For years, men have been told, “It’s good to talk.” And for many, including myself, talking has been a lifeline. But what if words are not always enough? What if true healing lies in something deeper, something unspoken? I have seen this truth […]