Emotional Fusion in Men: When Caring Becomes Control
What if all that caring you call strength is just another cage? Main Point Many mistake emotional fusion in men for love. What feels like care is often control—an inherited pattern born in boyhood, where safety depended on keeping someone else stable. Real maturity begins not when a man manages better, but when he stops […]
Success and the Shadow: Why Doing It All Is Not Enough
Many high-achieving men feel a quiet emptiness behind their polished lives. This blog explores Carl Jung’s concept of the shadow—and how confronting the parts we hide is essential for wholeness, authenticity, and emotional clarity.
The Unseen Weight of Always Becoming
What if the drive to constantly improve isn’t about growth—but about guilt? For many men, self-improvement isn’t a path to wholeness. It’s penance. A quiet attempt to fix what was never broken, to earn worth that should never have been in question. This blog explores the hidden toll of always striving—and the radical freedom of accepting our imperfect, human selves.”
The Forgotten Art of Soulfulness in Men: A Quiet Revolution for Men
**Website Excerpt:**
“In an age where men are often reduced to their roles as providers and achievers, many have quietly lost touch with their inner lives—their souls. This article explores the forgotten art of soulfulness, a vital practice for reconnecting men with authenticity, emotional depth, and genuine relationships. Discover how reclaiming soulfulness can heal emotional wounds, transform relationships, and lead to a more meaningful and fulfilling life. If you’ve ever felt trapped behind a mask of strength, performance, or numbness, this quiet revolution is for you.”
Forgiveness, Authenticity and Masculinity – A personal perspective
I have struggled with forgiveness for most of my life. Perhaps that is the consequence of growing up in a fundamentalist religion where forgiveness was demanded. Forgiveness was for the other person rather than a gift to myself. I also admit to an internal cringe whenever I hear terms like patriarchy and toxic masculinity. I […]