Men Divorce and Grief: Healing After Love Ends
Main Points Men, divorce and grief are a potent mix that triggers a profound but often unspoken grief response in men. Men experience identity loss, loneliness, and silent suffering after separation and divorce. Divorce-related grief can begin before the relationship ends (anticipatory grief). Traditional masculinity can prevent men from seeking support. Healing after divorce means […]
Men’s Mental Health and Grief: The Life You Thought You’d Have
Main Points Mental Health and Grief can change your story. It can dismantle the life you imagined, the man you thought you’d be, and the sense of trust you once had in yourself. For many men, that loss hides beneath silence. We talk about symptoms, recovery, and resilience. But we rarely name what’s gone. What’s […]
Mentoring for Men: Rebuilding Strength, Soul, and Direction After Loss
A grounded reflection on how men can reclaim their centre through mentoring that honours grief, identity, and renewal. “The wound is the place where the Light enters you.” — Rumi Why this work exists When people hear the word mentoring, they often think of leadership programmes or professional development — men helping men climb ladders […]
Navigating Male Grief: A Map for Men on Silence, Strength, and Healing
Navigating male grief is not a straight path. It’s a slow crossing through silence, pressure, and the weight of what’s never spoken. For many men, grief doesn’t follow the usual accepted pattern. It comes as sleeplessness, chest tightness, overworking, and the second drink that becomes the third. It hides behind competence and the need to stay […]
Grief and Masculinity: How Loss Shapes Strength and Self-Awareness
At a Glance Grief and masculinity often collide. Men are often trained to remain composed, even when life falls apart. But grief has a way of slipping past armour—it exposes what’s real beneath performance. This article redefines grief not as a flaw to mend or overcome, but as a rite of passage —a doorway into […]
The Competence Tax in Men: The Hidden Cost of Being the Strong One
How High-Performing Men Lose Themselves in Strength, Silence, and Survival “The strongest people are not those who show strength in front of us, but those who win battles we know nothing about.” Main Points The competence tax in men is the emotional, psychological, and relational price men pay for always being capable. It’s not burnout—it’s […]
Why Men Compromise Authenticity — and the Hidden Cost to Integrity
How much would you sell your soul for? Main Points Why men compromise authenticity often has less to do with weakness and more to do with conditioning — the survival strategies learned through silence, service, and performance. Men rarely lose authenticity all at once. It erodes through small, daily compromises — the unspoken agreements that […]
The Performance Trap of Masculinity
Performing strength may keep you admired, but it won’t keep you whole. For men’s mental health to truly improve, we must stop pretending we have all the answers—and start living the questions that scare us.
Religious Trauma in Men: How Faith and Shame Shape Erotic Disconnection
Main Points Religious fundamentalism does not just shame men’s sexuality — it severs them from their bodies, emotions, and inner truth. For many gay and queer men raised within purity culture, desire was equated with danger, leading to lifelong patterns of self-surveillance and disconnection. This article explores: How religious conditioning literally changes how the body […]
Why Men Need Soul Mentoring—Not Just Success Coaching
This article explores the urgent need for soul mentoring for men today—an emotionally grounded, reflective alternative to conventional success-focused coaching. Drawing from the works of Thomas Moore, Carl Jung, and James Hillman, it guides men through grief, role fatigue, and spiritual disconnection, inviting them to rediscover meaning, emotional clarity, and soul presence.