Mentoring Through The Maze

Male Grief in Australia: Understanding How Men Grieve and Rebuild

Male Grief in Australia. Mist rises over a river symbolising reflection, solitude and stillness in men's grief.

Male Grief in Australia: How Men Reclaim Themselves Through Loss At-a-Glance Summary Core idea: Australian men grieve differently, often through silence, work, and duty — and these expressions deserve recognition, not correction. Why it matters: Misunderstanding male grief leaves many men unseen, unsupported, and silently suffering under outdated masculine scripts. What helps: Understanding instrumental vs. […]

The Grief of Disconnection for Men: Loneliness and Men. The Quietest Loss of All

Empty pier at dusk symbolising loneliness and men. For many men, loneliness is a hidden grief

Loneliness and men are two words that are deeply entwined. Loneliness isn’t just solitude; it is a kind of grief that chips away at a man’s sense of belonging and identity. This essay explores how disconnection can lead to loss — through fading friendships, emotional silence, and cultural pressure to appear strong — and suggests […]

Grief and Masculinity: How Loss Shapes Strength and Self-Awareness

Grief and masculinity - Black and white photo of a man holding his face in his hands, expressing emotional pain, Grief as Initiation

At a Glance Grief and masculinity often collide. Men are often trained to remain composed, even when life falls apart. But grief has a way of slipping past armour—it exposes what’s real beneath performance. This article redefines grief not as a flaw to mend or overcome, but as a rite of passage —a doorway into […]

Ghost Life in Men: Signs of Male Disconnection and How to Re-engage

Ghost life in men: a man silhouetted at a window, present but disconnected

Living the ghostly life isn’t just about flickering shadows and haunted hallways — it’s about embracing the unseen, the unspoken, and the beautifully strange moments that drift through our days like whispers on the wind. Much like a well-written blog post, this life requires structure, clarity, and the courage to say what others fear to speak. Whether you’re chasing echoes in the night or finding peace in the silence of solitude, the ghostly life teaches us to move with intention, live lightly, and speak volumes — even in silence

Understanding Male Grief: The Orpheus Myth and How Men Carry Grief

Understanding male grief as a man stands at a doorway, symbolising the threshold between life and grief.

Male Grief and the Orpheus Myth: The Pattern Men Live In understanding male grief, we need to recognise that men often hide their grief in high performance and being dependable. Many men keep working, solving problems, and showing up while carrying a weight that is often unexpressed. This article uses the Orpheus myth as a […]

The Complexities of Grief in Men’s Lives

My journey of grief started with a phone call. I stumbled out of bed, enveloped in the 4.20 am darkness and fog of sleep, to silence the shrill, insistent ringing of the phone. A disembodied male voice, low-key and caring, told me we needed to get to the hospital ASAP because my son had been […]